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Mirror, Mirror, On the Wall. . .
By Risha


When I look in the mirror I don't see the same image paraded on the cover of Cosmopolitan or Vogue, primetime television, blockbuster movies or on the red carpet at the Grammy's. I'll probably never make the cover of the ever-popular Sports Illustrated swimsuit issue. I don't see me gracing the pages of Victoria's Secret catalogues in the near future either. What I do see, however, is a young woman of color that doesn't fit the mold of "standard" beauty. I'm fine with that. I accept it and revel in it because I love who I am and the way I look. But in essence, I wonder what is the standard of beauty and who determines that?

In America, it seems beautiful is thin. Madison Avenue's fashion savvy display this "beauty" year after year and influence pop culture into thinking that "beautiful" is one-dimensional. The average woman sees 400-600 ads per day, and by the time she turns seventeen, she has received over 250,000 commercial messages through the media.[1] Most ads sell their products targeting adult women and teenage women using the idea of beauty to move products off the shelves. Some researchers believe that advertisers intentionally normalize unrealistically thin bodies in order to create an unattainable goal, which causes consumers to buy constantly.[2] The fact that the diet industry alone generates $33 billion in revenue suggests that these researchers may be right. Consistent exposure to female-oriented commercials and ads may influence young women to become self conscious about their bodies and to obsess over their physical appearance as a measure of their worth.[3]

The trend toward being slim, skinny and even anorexic in order to fit the American standard of beauty is as scary to me as it is unhealthy. Many women strive for the thin ideal because they are unhappy with their bodies. Failure to resemble fashion models, who weigh considerably less than the average female, causes insecurity in many young women. The obsession with being thin is believed to play a role in triggering eating disorders.

Anorexia nervosa is an eating disorder affecting mainly young women, although men can also suffer from it. It usually begins during the teenage years. Anorexia is self-induced weight loss caused by avoiding fattening foods and may involve taking excessive exercise, using laxatives or diuretics or inducing vomiting. There is a strong, almost overwhelming fear of putting on weight, with sufferers preoccupied with the shape or size of their bodies.[4] Detrimentally thin, anorexia sufferers continue to pursue an extremely low ideal weight considerably lower than the body weight healthy for their height. Adverse effects of this disorder include hormonal disturbances and, usually, women with anorexia nervosa stop having periods. Severe cases of anorexia may result in osteoporosis (fragile bones) and damage to the heart, liver, kidneys and brain as a result of long spells without adequate intake of food. Anorexia can impede growth in the young and cause difficulties in concentration. People with anorexia nervosa may also experience mental health problems such as depression and increased risk of suicide. Anorexics who do not receive treatment may become chronically ill or even die.

Every aspect of pop culture from magazines to the entertainment industry reflects this obsession with being thin. Cover after cover, and one movie and television show after another portrays images of slender women. While we may envy Janet Jackson's abs and slender physique, it is not realistic nor is it healthy to harm our bodies to look just like her. Janet, like most entertainers and television/movie stars, has costly personal trainers and exercises her body for hours to obtain the look she wants. Some entertainers even have costly cosmetic surgery to achieve that look of perfection that they idolize so much. How many of us can truly afford to spend that type of money to fit an ideal that may not fit our body types?

Promoting exercise and healthy eating habits as a matter of health and being in shape is one thing; relying on fad diets, miracle drinks, shakes and pills to achieve the "look you've always wanted" (but may never realistically achieve) is another. Being shapely does not mean you're fat or overweight and doesn't require spending countless hours in the gym. A few curves never hurt anybody's figure. For some, achieving miniscule proportions is worth it, but being comfortable in the skin you're in is priceless.

Though it may sound cliché, what is beautiful is within. Don't let anyone define beauty for you. Case closed.

  1. Dittrich, L. "About-Face facts on the MEDIA." About-Face web site. [Online: http://www.about-face.org/r/facts/media.shtml]
  2. Hamburg, P. (1998) "The media and eating disorders: who is most vulnerable?" Public Form: Culture, Media, and Eating Disorders, Harvard Medical School.
  3. Dittrich, L. "About-Face facts on BODY IMAGE." About Face web site. [Online http://about-face.org/r/facts/bi.shtml]
  4. http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/diseases/facts/anorexianervosa.htm

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